Wedding Day

Reception

Our Wedding

No one really knows how Gerhard and Jo-Anne met — honestly, it’s like they were just always around each other. Like milk tart at a family gathering: expected, comforting, and slightly addictive. From years of friendship and casual “How you doing?” messages (and Jo-Anne bringing him milk tarts at work — a love language in its own right), something started to simmer. Not a firework explosion — more like a slow-cooked stew. Delicious, unexpected, and suddenly… there. Gerhard was hooked. Maybe it was her professionalism. Maybe it was her passion. But let’s not lie — it was also definitely that smile. The kind of smile that makes you forget your PIN, your plans, and why you walked into the room in the first place. She had presence. Energy. A way of lighting up a space without trying — which made Gerhard try even harder. Jo-Anne, however, was… concerned. Not because he wasn’t amazing (he totally was). But because he was amazing. And that was terrifying. She did what any emotionally mature adult would do — blocked him. Then unblocked him. Then blocked him again. Classic millennial romance. But no matter how many digital doors she slammed, Gerhard kept showing up — with his sarcasm, his spreadsheets, his sweet heart hidden under that one-man-serious-army vibe. Resistance was futile. Their connection deepened through shared playlists, endless voice notes, and that weird thing where they kept saying the exact same thing at the exact same time (cue Twilight Zone music). One early “date” was at a smoky braai joint in the hood — the meat was incredible, the ambiance questionable, and Jo-Anne briefly wondered if she’d made a huge mistake. Spoiler: she hadn’t. He even let her eat the last rib. And then came the kiss — their first. In Jo-Anne’s mom’s car. (Hi Mom. We’re sure you didn’t hear it. Let’s keep it that way.) From the outside, it might’ve looked like an odd pairing — the architectural designer and the rental asset boss lady. But to those who know them, it’s the ultimate power duo. Equal parts chaos and coordination. Dreams, spreadsheets, design plans, and a lot of love. Then came the proposal — with a twist. Jo-Anne thought they were just finding out their baby’s gender. Surprise! Gerhard hits her with a second countdown. Out comes a ring. Boom. Two reveals. One big yes. (And yes, she cried. So did he, but let’s not talk about it.) Now they’re building more than just a home. They dream of launching a company where his design genius meets her property savvy — a little empire of bricks, blueprints, and vibes. They laugh, they sing (well, Jo-Anne sings — Gerhard mostly mumbles the chorus), they argue about food, and they challenge each other to grow. And most importantly? They keep choosing each other. Even on the days they drive each other nuts. Because that’s love. And it tastes a lot like milk tart.

Gerhard & Jo-Anne

Gerhard & Jo-Anne

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